How Learning to Fly Can Transform Your Life and Relationships

Introduction to the Journey

Learning to fly is more than just acquiring a new skill. It can transform your life in profound ways. People who embark on this journey often discover new perspectives, not only in the air but also in their personal relationships.

Excellent Health Habits

Pilots learn that in order to exercise their airman priviliges, they must hold a valid medical certificate. Airline Pilots specifically must hold a current first class medical certificate. To do this, they must pass a rigorous physical examination every six to twelve months depending on their age. In addition to having excellent heart health and vision, they must not develop any disqualifying physical or mental conditions and take any medication that may impair their reflexes and cognitive abilities. 

Developing excellent healthy eating habits and exercising regularly is a must for any pilot who wants a long term career in aviation. Any aspiring pilot should first consult a physician regarding their health before making this big commitment.  

Preparation

Before a pilot gets into an airplane, he must prepare a flight plan. A flight plan can be executed under Visual Flight Rules or Instrument Flight Rules, depending on the weather. Then, he has to decide how high to fly (altitude), the route of flight, and perform performance calculations. These include groundspeed, estimated time enroute, and the required fuel.  When weather conditions deteriorate, airport operations temporarily cease. This is why pilots must keep track of the fuel remaining and include an alternate airport in their flight plan.  

Once a flight plan is done, the pilot must inspect the aircraft and logbooks to assess the airworthiness of an airplane. If there is a mechanical problem, he must decide whether to defer the discrepancy or have the fault repaired before continuing the flight. 

A pilot must be trained and certified to fly the specific aircraft type before deciding to plan and execute a flight plan. He is expected to complete an FAA approved training program lead by an authorized instructor, pass a written knowledge and oral exam, then pass the checkride. 

The bottom line: A pilot learns how to be prepared for EVERYTHING. The lives of his passengers and his career depends on it!

Situational Awareness

Once preflight planning is done, a pilot must constantly anticipate and be vigilant. As a flight progresses, he must be aware of how the actual weather developments are different than the forecast predictions. Then, monitor every system to ensure they function correctly. A pilot also learns to know other air traffic in the area.  

The bottom line: Pilots learn to see the big picture, spot all the details, and prioritize safety tasks.  

Building Confidence

Flying requires confidence. Pilots must make quick decisions and trust their instincts. This confidence often extends beyond the cockpit. People find themselves more assured in daily life, tackling challenges with a newfound boldness.

Confidence in flying helps individuals in social settings as well. They communicate more effectively and engage with others more openly. This change can strengthen personal and professional relationships.

Enhancing Communication Skills

Communication is crucial in aviation. Pilots must convey clear information to ensure safety. This skill naturally improves interpersonal interactions. People who learn to fly often become better listeners and more articulate speakers.

Improved communication can lead to stronger bonds with family and friends. It helps in resolving conflicts and expressing emotions more effectively.

Emotional Control

Pilots are expected to remain calm, cool, and collected at all times. Never Panic. One Second, a pilot can be flying in smooth air and clear skies. Later, he could be shooting an instrument approach in fog and heavy rain down to minimums. The tower controller may state legal weather cloud ceilings and visibility to land visually, but what happends when the pilot monitoring calls "minimums" and the pilot flying doesn't see the approach lights or runway? Generally speaking, initiate a missed approach. 

Another example is when the surface winds increase in strength. Unexpected turbulence occurs. I heard a pilot once complain about turbulence on the radio as he was departing. The controller responded, "Stay home." I have always heard instructors say, "Fly the airplane now, talk later." 

Developing Patience and Perseverance

Flying demands patience. Pilots must wait for perfect conditions and navigate through unexpected challenges. This patience can be useful in personal life, helping individuals remain calm under pressure.

Perseverance is another trait that develops through flying. Overcoming obstacles in the air can inspire people to face life's hurdles with determination. This mindset can positively impact relationships, fostering resilience and support.

Before my dad and I left home for a cross-country excursion, we always packed a duffel bag so we were prepared to stay overnight in a hotel.   

Creating Shared Experiences

Flying offers unique opportunities for shared experiences. Taking a loved one on a flight can create lasting memories. These moments can deepen connections and provide a sense of adventure in relationships.

Shared experiences also encourage collaboration and teamwork. Couples or friends who fly together often develop a stronger sense of partnership.

Conclusion: Embracing the Transformation

Learning to fly can be a transformative journey. The skills and traits developed through flying can enhance both personal and professional relationships. People find themselves more confident, communicative, and patient.

By embracing the challenges and joys of flying, individuals can enrich their lives and the lives of those around them. This journey can lead to stronger bonds and a deeper understanding of oneself and others.